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Change, the only constant thing in this universe, has driven me to write my recent experience with it.

One question has been bugging me for a long time. Should we change ourselves to what situations warrant us to or should we change things around us to suit ourselves? Then one fine day I came across a line somewhere in a book, “We should know to differentiate between those that we can change and those that we cannot.”

Well. I tried doing it. You will be surprised. It really worked out so well. Whenever I face a disturbing situation, I do sit alone patiently (a really tough job for me!!;)) trying to find out if I could change this situation or change my outlook on it. I didn’t just think. But, I wrote down all possible solutions for that problem and tried doing everything. If those didn’t work out as expected, that problem went to the second category. “Unchangeable situation. You better change your outlook on it.” If it did work, the problem is over by then!! :)

I am not saying this as a …